Feed Me – No Vegetarian Mass

By all appearances, what I attended yesterday was Mass. There were some people in the pews. Words were eloquently spoken. The host was validly consecrated. Yes, it was Mass. And yet, I left hungry, ravenous, for the Word.

Yesterday I was traveling and attended Mass at a Church other than our lovely Dominican parish. I recognize, that I am spoiled, being fed by the Order of Preachers. But our lay faithful of every parish have a need for the true Word, not the pleasantries to be found any Sunday at any non-denominational Church.

We are a church in crisis. Our lukewarm brethren need to know that we are the One, True, Church. That the Eucharist holds us. “Where else would I go, Lord?”

Yesterday was a children’s Mass. Jesus loved the little children at a time when children were considered a burden one must train to someday become a useful adult. He loved, nurtured, and valued them. He chastised the apostles that one’s faith must be like a child.

So why do some churches insist upon watering down the Word for our next generation of fired-up Catholics? How could it possibly be ok to routinely leave out the second reading? I suppose the goal is to make the Mass shorter. But that second reading each week is to give us the roadmap to apply our faith to our daily life. To endure and shine in a world which tries to strip us of our beliefs.

I thought perhaps my mind had wandered and I had missed the second reading, so I asked the pastor after Mass. He said that indeed, they do not read the second reading at Children’s Mass.

He called the children up to the steps of the altar to sit, while he turned he turned his back to those in the pews, to directly address the children in his homily. His watered down, meatless homily. Believe me, I’m fine with a priest facing the tabernacle, away from the pews, to worship our Lord, together with the faithful. This was altogether different.

Yes, he was engaging.  His speaking style was fantastic. He walked among the pews, turned around, asked the parents questions, but it was a vegetarian meal. Something about Jesus being great. We’re called upon not to be great but to serve. Sounds ok. But what was the example to serve? Raid your parents pantry, get some hot cocoa and put it in the church’s food collection. For real.

No mention of sacrifice. No mention of acting in the image of God. No mention of small acts of sacrifice, such as serving your brother dessert before yourself. Just disconnected talk about the homeless. Feeding the homeless is certainly important to discuss, but these kids also need a personal connection to the unique sacrifice  upon which we are called. That sacrifice is why we are Catholic when we could easily be anything else.

In this age of technological invasiveness we need to be able to attend Mass and receive calm, peaceful guidance from our Lord, in addition to worshipping Him with our every fiber. Priests, it is incumbent upon you to feed us. 

If “your” Mass consists is a wonderful example of engaging speech, but does not call upon our souls to sacrifice for our Lord, you missed the point of why we are Catholic.

These pews are emptying because we can find engaging Christian rhetoric anywhere. We are Catholic because He literally feeds us and we can get this food nowhere but here. Priests, your rhetoric is not special. If your watered down rhetoric is all we get, the lukewarm will leave. All that is likely keeping them here is a sense of familial duty. “My parents raised me Catholic, so I’ll raise my kids Catholic. We’ll attend on Sundays. Good enough”. That may work for one generation, not two.

If your fear of offending those in the pews with true Catholic teaching, like gnawing on the body of our Lord, outweighs your sense of duty to bring them to Heaven, you have failed.  People can get lectured about charitable donations anywhere. People can even get fired up about Lord anywhere. Only at the Catholic Church can we receive the flesh our Lord and call to sacrifice this world to follow Him. It is not an easy call, one which many priests with pews of lukewarm Catholics avoid. Why risk driving them away? Because, priests, they are leaving anyway.

Feed us.

Pro-choice or Pro-Life in the Catholic Church?

I write to you today, not to ask for money, but merely to ask for your prayers and possibly your time.

Let me begin with a question. Let’s say a young woman you know has an abusive boyfriend. He recently hit her, yet she’s left feeling worthless without him. He’s convinced her that she’s nothing and can do nothing of value without him. She’s about to go back to him, to get abused yet again… do you try to stop her? Even though it’s none of your business? Do you try to convince her that there are alternatives? That there are people who can help her?

Each week I go to 659 W. Washington St. in the West Loop and I do something that is none of my business. I get yelled at. I get mocked. I get cursed at. Because it’s none of my business.

We can go through life seeing God’s other children do horrible things to each other and just continue to walk by and say “it’s not my place to impose my judgment on others.”

I’m here to tell you that it is our calling as Catholics to be a light unto others and share God’s love where you can, even at risk to your own reputation.

When I first heard the term “prayer warrior”, I didn’t get it and didn’t want the moniker. I’m no warrior. We used to be called “sidewalk counselors”, but that’s sadly a joke. There is very little opportunity to counsel a woman in need outside an abortion clinic when well-meaning abortion rights activists crowd around the woman and shout you down.

Clinic escort standing 4 inches in front of me, refusing to move

 

I come before you today because the veil over my eyes has this week been lifted and I wish to do the same for you. I’ve been going to the clinic for well over a year, all the while thinking that we were prevented from counseling these women, because it is their right to peacefully enter that clinic. Like some of you, I was pro choice for years, and still respected the rights of women to be left alone when making this decision.

So each week, I kneel exactly 8 feet from the door to the clinic and pray a rosary and offer support when I can. When the clinic escorts meow at me, I just ignore it. Yes, they often meow like cats when I speak.

I go to pray and let the women know that there are city services available to them, like insurance, job training and day care. That there is support for them and that they are not alone.

This week I found out that a woman I saw removed by ambulance from the clinic was not simply getting a little blood transfusion as I was assured by the escorts. They lied. Maybe the clinic even lied to them. This week it came out in the news that the clinic had even lied to the 911 dispatcher when reporting the horrific botched procedure that led to a hemorrhage and could have led to her death.

I stood out there, was mocked and cursed at while the ambulance took her away, because it was “none of our business”. That she was exercising her “right”.

Those of you in the parish who still think it’s about rights, let me invite you now to come down to 659 W. Washington and see that this has absolutely nothing to do with rights. Regardless of your personal feelings on this issue and which “side” you wish to stand on, I challenge you to choose a “side”, because there are no lukewarm opinions on abortion when you see a young girl, 6 months pregnant, bawling and clutching her stomach while her mother is screaming at her and dragging her into the clinic.

There are no lukewarm opinions when a young woman survives into a car accident in the street right in front of the clinic, gets out of the car, and walks into the clinic to kill her child.

There are no lukewarm opinions when a girl falls over in the street right in front of you, too weak to stand. You offer your help and suggest she might not be able to do this today and she says “I have no choice”.

These girls are desperate. They are almost always minority; almost never well-to-do white women demanding their rights. No, those are the escorts who prevent us from offering help. I’ve questioned the escorts, “why do you prevent us from offering help?” “It’s none of your business”. They have said to my face, if these people can’t afford the kid it’s better off dead.

I come before you today for prayers in this war against evil and possibly to ask for your time. If you can find an hour of your week on a Friday or Saturday morning to come down to the clinic, it would go a long way to show these women support and solidarity. You needn’t say a word, just be there.

Because in my personal experience, it’s tough to know the great joy and love of God without defending him in battle against the work of demons. With his words as your sword, when you offer his love to someone so desperately in need of mercy and compassion, if only for just a moment… while a grown woman nearby cackles and dances from foot to foot… when you see his great love and mercy in the sight of clear evil… well, it’s just harder to feel closer to our Lord than you can at that moment.

Many blessings and I do appreciate your prayers.